There’s a guy who reads my blog every day. He reads my new posts over and over again. He rereads last month’s posts on a regular basis. And he reads through the old stuff, the stuff I wrote years ago, even when no one else does.
That guy is me. I like what I write, and I like how I write it. I enjoy reading my stories… again and again.
I’m saddled with obsessive thoughts. They linger and lurk in a corner of my mind like a hoodlum outside a seven-eleven. Always there, a little menacing, impossible to ignore. One of my obsessions is blog stats. When I wake up in the morning, as my coffee is percolating, WordPress is the first site I visit. I look to see who visited during the night. How many people, if they had anything to say.
Throughout the day, I check in hourly, often I’ll check as many as four or five times during that hour. Nothing ever changes, or almost never. A handful of times each day—on a day when I haven’t posted anything—I’ll pick up a view, maybe a like, and on rare occasions, a follower.
But these small, infrequent victories keep me returning, looking for more. At least half of the views I get are tied to three posts. These are posts with key words that get a lot of action.
The Hair Wiz: It’s a 1970s product that cuts your hair using a razor blade imbedded in a comb. There’s a small but dedicated crowd still looking for the special razor blades the Hair Wiz uses. I don’t know if they ever find the blades, but they always find my blog post. It gets three or four views each day.
The best songs you won’t hear in spin class: I wrote this years ago, midway through my career as a spin instructor. It’s my fantasy playlist of inappropriate and profane songs that I’d love to (but don’t get to) play in my class. Apparently, people are constantly looking for the best songs for spinning. But they don’t get them from me.
Sweet and Naughty: This is a review of a candy shop in Culebra, Puerto Rico. I doubt people in China are trying to find out about the store which, incidentally, was permanently put out of business by Hurricane Maria, but sweet and naughty remains a common search term.
But I’m not writing about these three posts. They get more readership than they deserve. This post is about blogs and bloggers and lost gems.
From my perspective, blogs serve two purposes: They either make a point, or they tell a story. I suppose the best blogs make a point while telling a story, but for me, the story is what matters. Like the TV show Seinfeld, resolution at the end isn’t necessary. I just want to enjoy getting there.
Because I read and reread my blog, I can honestly say that some of my posts are worth the effort. They tell a good story. Some of them even make a point. I’ve listed these stories on a Best Stuff tab of my blog, but no one ever reads this page. Because I watch my stats so carefully, I know that my Best Stuff is reviewed about once a month. And I think this is a shame. These are the posts that fill me with pride.
Recently, someone read my post Dead Man in the Surf . I wrote this a couple of years ago, and in all this time, I haven’t revisited it. When people view a story that I haven’t read in a while, I always take the time to read it. I like to refresh my memory, I like to know what people are getting. I was shocked. This is one of my best stories. When I wrote it, I saw it as a goofy little piece of no importance. Now, I know that when I next distill my blog into a memoir, this will be a prominent story in the book. Dead Man in the Surf may even be the title of the book.
We all have old posts that we consider our best posts. Those pieces we post, get thirty page-views, and then disappear into the oblivion of WordPress. How do we get people to take the time to go back and read those old posts. I’ve tried with my Best Stuff tab and it doesn’t work.
I want to know. What is your best writing? What is the one story you would hold up as your favorite piece. Right now, Dead Man in the Surf is mine, but this will change over time. Right now, what is yours?
Drop your link in my comments. I want to read the post that you think is your best.
Ardent fan ! right sir ?
http://wp.me/s8OU9N-diabetes
This definitely is my best post.
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That’s a nice poem. I’ve been fooling around with poetry a little bit recently with mixed results. Tricky stuff to write.
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It’s a pleasure you liked it !
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What attracted me to your blog are your ruminations on distance running. Your “Crest the Hill” post is top notch.
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Oh, it’s been a while since I ruminated on that. I took Crest the Hill to a writers’ workshop this summer and it was torn to shreds. I realized last night that I haven’t opened and digested the feedback since I’ve been home. Too painful. Brian, in your opinion, what’s your best story or poem. I have a few.
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I am indeed inspired by my own blog. I have written and published about 170 blog posts since February 2017. If I have to choose my most favorite blog post, I would say:
“Winning a Prize”
I do not know much about your blog. But, I think that I like this blog post the most.
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No I don’t want you to rank *my* posts. What’s the url for Winning a Prize
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https://foreignloveweb.com/2017/11/01/winning-a-prize/
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I think you make a lot of great points on the value of relationships vs material treats. I’m not sure if I understand why we need to go to a foreign country to connect with the person you describe. Thanks for dropping your link (below).
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Oh are you going to make me choose??? LOL I have a few that I deem ‘my best work’ …. I have to go rescue burgers from the BBQ but I will narrow it down and post one link for you later! 🙂
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Okay- I went through a few of my favorites… Perhaps this post is one of my best? https://theyoncecalledherpumpkin.wordpress.com/2017/08/24/depression-has-no-face/
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Yes, that is a good one. I remember when you posted it.
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Great idea, Jeff. A bit much on my plate at the moment, but I see some spaces in the week ahead for me to do a review and I’ll share a favorite or two from my site then.
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You mean we are supposed to go back and read our own posts? Rank them? I do have a plan to cull through them at some point, but at the moment I have deadlines and stories that demand to be written. I will keep you posted.
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I’d rate this one as my favorite right now. My first freeform poem, it was liberating to break out of writing in a rigid structure.
https://everydaystrangeblog.wordpress.com/2018/06/03/strange-writing-free-form/
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Yes, I like that poem. I don’t remember it. I must have missed it first time around. Thanks for sharing it again.
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I wrote a few longer posts that I really like, I’ve a couple of family history posts that have performed very well, but this is the one that I put a lot of heart into it and emersed myself in all things Titanic to write.
https://historianruby.com/2018/01/14/titanic-the-hero-musicians/
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Ruby, I really enjoyed this piece. I’m not overly interested in all things historical (which makes me an oddity in my town as I live in Gettysburg) but I found this story fascinating. Possibly because this is such a well known story and has such an air of unbelievableness to it. I appreciate your research and writing. I feel more educated as a result. Also, thanks for clicking through to Dead Man in the Surf. I believe you’re the only person who did that today.
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I reread my stuff, too. Mostly when I want to remember that like you, I blog to tell stories. This one is from last year, but it’s nice to look back on it.
Drinking Red Wine On Vacation: https://ginlemonade.com/2017/09/13/drinking-red-wine-on-vacation/
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There’s definitely a bit of reliving the past in reading old blog posts. It’s nice that we write down these stories for ourselves. Your story was excellent. Thank you.
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https://briandeanpowers.wordpress.com/2016/08/31/the-run-to-picnic-point/
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Yes, I remember that one. I loved it then, and I think I love it more now – after reading (and trying to write) poetry for a few years now, I’ve gained a much better understanding of the craft. Your poem truly puts me in the setting.
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Glad to know I’m not the only one! Thanks for sharing! My most popular post by far is one I wrote after being inspired by 5 hour energy driving through the night for vacation. May not be your type of blog but I’d love for you to give it a read!
https://www.mamadeets.com/to-the-mom-that-caught-me-staring/
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This is a nice tribute to the many parenting styles. From time to time, I question my approach to parenting, but so far, my kids are happy, successful and seem to genuinely like their parents. I guess we never know how we did until they’re thirty-five and start bitching to you about what their therapist told them you did wrong (at least that’s what I did to my dad). I do a lot of my writing in my head as well. Usually on a run, but sometimes in the car. My drug is espresso.
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I read your comment in nerdywordybirdy’s post and was intrigued! I write a lot of running posts, but my favorites are the ones about my thoughts inspired by a long distance run. I am now going to check out some of your older posts.
Here is my favorite
https://meditationsinmotion.wordpress.com/2018/06/14/drink-the-wine-eat-the-cake/
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A couple of my better ones on running include:
https://jefftcann.com/2018/05/03/crest-the-hill-2/
https://jefftcann.com/2016/07/26/on-death-and-living-and-running-2/
A lot of the stuff under my running tag is crap.
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Interesting post! I tend to be very critical toward my own writing, mostly because I don’t write in my first language and worry that I don’t sound natural…
My best (and most popular) post is my take on what it means to be Canadian:
https://wanderingflamingo.blog/2017/07/05/being-canadian/
I’ll save your posts to read later! 😊
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First off… your story is wonderfully written. Living in a culture that doesn’t necessarily embrace the Canadian traits you mention (freedom? Ha!) it makes me wish I had more opportunity to interact with Canadians. Lip-service is given to those ideals in the US but actually living them? Not hardly.
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Aww, thank you! I always everyone should be a little more Canadian, haha! Canada has its faults too, and maybe living away romanticize my vision of things, but I think if we look at the international scene lately, Canada is doing pretty well. The US must be a difficult place to be these days… I don’t envy you.
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I love that you take the time to read over your old blog posts – I rarely do, unless I think it connects with a new post that I’m writing, so I look back over it for reference before linking it in the post. Some of these times – I look back and I’m so proud that it’s me that has written it. Today I hah a quick look over a few and wasn’t too impressed.
Anyhoo the post that I’m sharing is the first I ever wrote about being a person of colour. It was a post that leapt out of me, I didn’t spend time writing or editing it and it really pushed my vulnerability barriers – which led me to open up more. Is it my best written?
https://thisvulnerablelife.com/2017/04/28/back-to-black-🙋🏿/
Thanks for this post. I am going to read back on every single one of my posts and see if I can learn from them.
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Any readers who happen upon this post and read the comments… this is the post you should read.
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My most read, aka, popular posts aren’t necessarily my favourites or best.
Once they’re written and out there, my opinion of them doesn’t mean anything.
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Hmmm… interesting challenge! I finally decided to offer a post I wrote shortly after the death of Robin Williams. It resonated with my readers, and perhaps you will like it. All the best, Jadi Campbell at jadicampbell.com Go to: http://jadicampbell.com/2018/07/19/the-death-of-robin-williams/
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Thank you for coming by. I love your RW post and found your about page intriguing. When I’m not at work, I’ll spend some more time exploring you. Robin’s death hit me especially hard. Celebrities die all the time, and as an adult you get used to that and move beyond. Robin’s death has stuck with me. Reading your post and then reading my RW post on an old blog I was writing at the time brought back many of the feelings I experienced when I heard about his death. I’d be honored if you read mine. http://undercrust.blogspot.com/2014/08/robin.html
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Hi Jeff, I enjoyed your post on Robin – thanks for directing me to the link. I agree: Robin’s death has stuck with me as well. He shone a light in our darkest places, and made us laugh and weep.
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